“Should I remind you that the reason you worry so much, sometimes even worry so much, is because there still exists between you and life, a passionate love affair?
And because of this, everything will be fine.
xxoo,
The universe”
Never take life too seriously, as many stress experts would say. Accepting changes with open arms does not make you passive; it simply allows you to learn to be more flexible and understanding of life’s uncertainties. To truly understand what happiness should be is to accept the things you can’t control and, whatever it is, figure out how to extract the positive from every negative situation. You need to look at things through a different set of lenses, where the old man would focus too much on the bad, where the good is something that looks you straight in the eye but you’re too blind to pay attention. Obviously, some bad things in life don’t have positive results, no matter how positive you are, but these are the times when you should take a step back and give yourself time to analyze the existing situation and draw your own conclusion. At some point, these moments have no conclusion at all, and that’s absolutely fine.
Life will do what it wants and unless you learn to accept that you will never really live your life. Constantly fighting him is a losing battle, so why bother? Just imagine facing Mike Tyson in the boxing ring in his heyday, where he got a chance to train hard while you never bothered to exercise before the fight. Based on this scenario, please tell me how that will turn out for you. Not very good, right? Well, try to see life in the same way. There are things that we cannot change no matter how hard we try. Regardless of what stands between your concerns in life and the actual results of your life, you must learn to appreciate things more and be grateful.
