When love happens, the birds sing and the flowers bloom.
However, when love leaves and a breakup occurs, everything is pessimism…
That has always been the case with humans. While there are millions of people finding love right now, at the same time, unfortunately, there are millions of other people breaking up and losing their love. “Why did you break up with me?” Prayed “Why did you split up?” This is probably the number one question that comes to mind when it happens…
relationship breakups they are common and do not happen without reason. A breakup occurs when one party feels that she wants to “get out” of a relationship or when both parties feel that the relationship should end. Why people break up can be due to many reasons. But there are 3 most common reasons why a breakup occurs. Understanding what they are can help you prevent a potentially nasty breakup!
Let’s explore the top 3 reasons that cause breakups:
Reason #1: Distrust
When you are with someone and in a relationship with them, you are committed to them. Whether the relationship is a marriage, an engagement, or a steady boyfriend/girlfriend, these relationships require both parties to give each other faith, love, and security. If you loved the person from the start, you would have committed to the relationship wholeheartedly, willingly, and trusting that person to do the same for you. However, if this trust is broken by either cheating party for whatever reason (sometimes stupidity or recklessness), love often withers and dies along with it.
Reason #2: Differences
Quite often, you will find that couples usually meet through a common interest or that they have a major common factor that they can relate to or connect with. However, once they are together, there are many instances where they find many other things about their partner that they don’t like. These are the differences that couples find with each other as time goes by. Over time, it can get to a point where things are no longer the way they used to be and there is nothing in common anymore. This is the moment when the relationship begins to “slowly die” and the breakup is inevitable.
Reason #3: Lost Love
The ultimate reason for relationship breakups is that the love is gone. When you are in a relationship for a long time and there is no effort on the part of both parties to “liven up” the relationship, it often feels comfortable and couples take each other for granted. Without new emotion in the relationship, the feelings or love between the two people can slowly erode and eventually disappear. When that happens, and if one party can no longer find reason to accommodate the growing differences between the couple, a breakup is often inevitable.
