What do we call this?
A family with the acceptance of the supposed born again Bro gave a verdict that;
No pregnancy, no marriage rite!
Reason: The older brother’s wife is still not pregnant after years of marriage and they don’t want a repeat.
And the sister is contemplating doing the “do” so the brother doesn’t run away.
If you find yourself in this kind of situation, dear sister, you still haven’t found the man whose missing rib you carry with you.
If after months of waiting for you to get pregnant despite several “spills” and the thing refuses to come, what will happen? He leaves you for another abi! Yoruba will say “ti e gbe”.
God cannot be mocked…you do not begin your marriage with the premise of testing the waters before you jump in and expect a smooth ride.
When His word says that marriage should be honorable for all and the bed undefiled, why do you want to disobey?
Disobedience is compared to the sin of witchcraft.
Do you think that God did not know that some people could suffer a delay in conception?
He knew but expected us to exercise FAITH. Giving your life to Jesus is by faith.
The fact that Bro had the mouth to speak it and encouraged the act should have told you that he wasn’t born; by their fruit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Goodness, Kindness, Fidelity, Meekness, Temperance) you will know them.
For those who have given in to this bad verdict of their laws, it is better to retrace their steps to God and beg for mercy now than to enter into that marriage without the blessing of their Father in heaven.
Brother, why worry, why sin against God? Why collude with her family to place an unnecessary burden on our dear sister?
God already assured you in Psalm 128:3 that your wife would be like a fruitful vine in the VERY HEART of YOUR HOUSE.
Finally, sisters, please give yourself great value.
Its price is well above rubies.
If he wants to go because you refuse to succumb, that’s fine. It’s Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish!
That you are old should not push you to sin against God; He doesn’t forget his daughters. The Bible says that He establishes the lonely in families.
Your prince charming is here!
God is not mocked! Please note this
