Men and women often date, or worse, marry, people who simply don’t have what it takes to make them happy and never will. How can you be sure that you are loving the right partner? Learning the four types of personality pairs gives you a simple and practical way to know if he or she is really compatible with you.
Earth Mother or Star Woman?
Mother Earth is the caregiver, who enjoys taking care of others. About 80 percent of women are Mothers of the Earth who have the imperative of nurturing as the driving force in their personalities.
The other 20 percent are Star Women, visionary, native leaders who are driven to set and achieve goals. If you are a star woman, you may find it especially difficult trying to fit in with the traditional ideas of mainstream society about marriage.
Meteor Man or Comet Man?
The Meteor Man is a good man who accepts the influence of his woman. You like to think you’re in charge most of the time, but you’re generally willing to share power and be fair. He is likely to be a loyal partner with a determined devotion to his wife once he addresses her.
Comet Man is a considerate and cooperative teacher. He is blessed with a more sensitive nature than most men and gets a similar satisfaction to Mother Earth from being a good support person. He is less motivated and often values privacy and play more than material things.
Most promising personality pairs: who is your best match?
All four pairings can result in a good relationship, but two require more work than others. If you want the easiest way to have a great marriage, partner with the personality type that is a natural match for you.
1. The meteor man and the star woman Annoying
Meteor Man may be initially fascinated by a Star Woman’s spark and courage, but in the long run they are likely to find themselves in a power struggle. He wants things his way and she wants things his way. He is too much work for her and she is too demanding for him. This is not an easy match, but it can be successful if both partners have the patience to negotiate their differences.
2. The meteorite man and mother earth Promising
The Meteor Man prefers to be the leader of his marriage and is generally a kind and fair guy who likes to see his partner happy. The Mothers of the Earth are comfortable with this type of man as a leader, as long as their opinions are respected and incorporated into family decisions. These two are natural partners.
3. Comet Man and Mother Earth Annoying
Pairing an Earth Mother with a Comet Man is the most difficult of the four. In this case, the woman will always hope that he will take the reins of leadership because he does not always want to.
In the meantime, he will always hope that she will be more aggressive and more willing to be in control. The leadership role in this marriage can be like a hot potato tossed around causing disappointment for both spouses.
If you are an Earth Mother who is already married to a Comet Man that you want to keep, you can improve your relationship by developing your inner Star Woman and taking charge in more areas.
4. Comet Man and Star Woman Promising
Comet Man enjoys being Star Woman’s best friend and main cheerleader, delighting in her accomplishments as well as his own. Your energy and zeal ignite your fire and propel it in your direction. Not only does he accept their influence, he welcomes it.
The only problem you might have in the relationship is learning to relax into your leading role in the marriage. Comet Man has a deep desire to give himself to a woman. It gives him joy to leave his workday role behind and pamper his lady instead.
There are more kite men out there than one would think. Some are quite powerful and successful in the outside world: lawyers, senators, CEOs, and the like. Others are blue-collar men who are the image of sexy masculine charm: construction workers, police officers, and firefighters.
An intelligent female star who is smart and confident enough to let her commanding side shine through can easily capture the heart of a comet man. You need to be strong and determined enough to overcome old ideas ingrained in your subconscious about how women are supposed to behave. You must be willing to dismiss the need for anyone else’s approval.
When a kite man meets a star woman who gives him ample opportunity to satisfy his needs, he feels like he has hit the jackpot in the game of love. This type of “Venus on Top” role reversal relationship is on the rise as more men and women discover that their true happiness lies beyond the limited gender roles of traditional marriage.
