This has to be one of life’s difficult situations, where a marriage fails. It can’t be easy to lose your wife, especially if you still care about her and consider her your soul mate. You are constantly trying to figure out how to save the marriage and the biggest hurdle right now is getting her to come home. Without her on board, you feel desperate because the marriage is slipping away from you and you want your wife to come home.
Word of advice, don’t rush to take your wife home. He must have some kind of plan for how he can start solving her problems by the time she gets home. Use this time apart from your wife to figure out what you need to do to make things right. Evaluate the marriage and decide what you can do to be a better person, a better husband, and a better man. You want to make sure that the destructive behaviors you were engaging in before your wife left have been addressed and that you have committed to the changes you will need to make to make your marriage work with your wife.
Now that we’ve cleared that up, here’s how you can convince your wife that you still want to be with her and that you want her to come home:
• Let her know that while she was gone, you have had time to discuss your marriage and have reflected on issues that may have caused a lot of stress in the marriage. Explain that you know there are certain behaviors that you are willing to change because it will make your marriage better and stronger.
• Stay faithful to your wife. Just because she has left your house and you feel lonely and lonely doesn’t mean you should get a girlfriend or have women come over. If you do something like this, you can forget about getting her back and repairing your marriage. Show her that you love and respect her by being monogamous, and that will definitely earn you some points.
• Don’t get lazy and act like a pig. Keep the house neat and clean, so that when her wife comes home, she can see that she was still respecting her house and making an effort. Don’t make her feel like you want her back just so she can clean up after you.
• Whatever mistakes you have made, sincerely apologize to your wife for them. If you messed up, your wife will actually give you credit for it and show her that you are manly and mature enough to take responsibility for your own actions.
