These first date tips are written based on several years of experience counseling clients and dating myself. Okay, you’re on your first date with someone you potentially like. Be sure to keep the conversation light and informal. Think of the things you would say to a friend. Think of it as “I’m getting to know the other person before we can get close.” The key is to stay relaxed and not think too much about what you are going to say. Here are some first date tips for guy conversation ideas:
First Date Tips For Men – Topics To Talk About:
– Highlights of your life. These should be the most interesting things that have happened to you over the course of the past week. You can have a “Seinfeld” style. Little observations can be really fun if your delivery is good.
– Interesting stories of yours. I have traveled a lot when I was younger, so I can talk about my travels for hours. This is good because it will also allow you to talk about interesting stories from your life. Don’t feign interest (women are very good at knowing when you’re really interested and when you’re not).
– Your passions. This is amazing first date advice for men. I love talking about my big dreams and ambitions with women. This allows me to miss them as potential partners as well. If someone doesn’t think big, I can’t see myself having a long-term relationship with them.
– Horoscopes/Superstitious things. This is like crack for the girls. They love this kind of soulmate thing. I’m not very good at it, but I know a little here and there so I can hold my own. If you want something really easy to trust, just use this. However, the above points are generally better for establishing comfort.
First Date Tips for Men – Topics to Avoid:
– Do not discuss technical/sports topics (unless she is interested). Most women will find this type of conversation boring. You definitely don’t want your date to get bored if you try to hook up later. For more tips on what to do to seal the deal when it comes down to it, visit Best Dating Manual (link below).
– Negative things about yourself. This is pretty straightforward. You want to add a couple of negatives that she will also have (her room is messy, she is sensitive, etc.).
– Do not talk about her previous boyfriends on the first date. This can lead to her liking them or feeling down about being mistreated.
