Tease and denial, in the context of male chastity, is where a woman (usually, because gay men play male chastity too), will repeatedly bring her man to the brink of orgasm…and then will stop. I know it seems cruel, ruthless and even evil, but really…
It is for most men an essential element of male chastity, especially if your chastity is taken a little more seriously than a brief chastity game.
Because?
Well, to answer that, let’s look at what male chastity is intended to accomplish.
The first thing to understand is that male chastity is not the same as male celibacy. Celibacy is something you will typically find in a cold, stale, and unhappy marriage or relationship where there is often no sexual contact at all. And, in my experience, both men and women in celibate relationships are not happy about this (and it must be said, this is a major cause of many issues).
Male chastity, on the other hand, is something practiced between loving couples who want more intimacy and sex together and choose to achieve this by giving the woman control of the man’s orgasms. The net result of this over time is that their relationship becomes much more like new relationships, with each focusing more and more on the other’s physical and emotional needs.
Now, this is all well and good, but unless your man is the submissive type, and most men interested in male chastity are NOT submissive, for him to simply cater to your sexual needs is not enough, and just ‘ shut it and leave it’ is not going to make for a happy foray into male chastity.
And the answer is, of course, Tease and Denial.
It can be hard at first, not just emotionally (because your man is going to be begging you to make him orgasm, and you’ve had the better part of your adulthood conditioning yourself to allow that) but also physically because the sad truth is that many women don’t know their men’s physiology well enough to tell when he’s about to cum (in other words, they don’t stop in time!).
But that’s not much of a problem, and as long as you’re adult and sensitive about it, and ‘accidents’ aren’t much of a problem, unless you decide to make them one.
Fortunately, it doesn’t take long to learn this essential skill and once you really get used to the idea that as long as your man wants come the yearns denial, you will realize how amazing the male chastity lifestyle really is. And once you get practice at this, you’ll find that you can keep your man going with several T&D sessions a week, and I can tell you from my own experience with John, my husband, that’s more than enough to keep him in place. . toes!
If you’ve been searching for information on male chastity and tease and denial, you’ve probably been bummed and discouraged by the amount of hogwash written by sad wannabes who have no real idea about the lifestyle.
