I started out as a model and have been in the fashion and entertainment industry for over 20 years. I later became a makeup artist and have met all kinds of people in all walks of life. Soon men started coming to me for advice on clothes and makeup, and I thought it was just harmless fun. After all, that was my job: to make people look their best. It turned into a full time career helping them become the girl of their dreams and I loved it as much as they did! Over the years, I’ve also discovered that many men have fantasies of being forced to wear women’s clothing, of having no choice but to dress in a lacy bra and panties, and often acting ladylike in front of a group of women. . This fetish is commonly known as Forced Feminization.
Most of the time it involves a situation where they have no choice but to obey my wishes. The threat of blackmail is a very popular topic. For example, you get caught stealing my lingerie from a laundromat or a clothes line and I threaten to call the police. You beg me not to, and you promise to do whatever I ask if we can keep this secret. And being the understanding person that I am, I’ll give you a choice. Either I teach you a lesson in dressing yourself from head to toe in makeup and possibly a trip to the beauty salon or I arrest you. Oddly enough, it is a great fantasy for millions of men around the world.
There are as many different levels to this as there are fetishes. For some, the highlight is simply being threatened and accepting the consequences. For others, the thrill is the slow but complete feminization that they can’t stop. Many men also like the humiliation aspect of this and need to complete their experience. Of course, some want to take it even further, but that’s not something I do.
I have found that if something like wearing women’s clothing gives you pleasure and doesn’t hurt anyone, then enjoy it. The problems that arise stem more from the guilt and confusion that many of these people feel. Their entire lives they have been taught to ignore these feelings and act like a man while a part of them wants to wear a cocktail dress and heels and sing “I Feel Pretty”!
This is where the idea of ”Forced” comes in. If they are forced to and no longer have a reasonable choice, then the guilt is removed and they can be free to enjoy it. It is no longer a choice but a consequence. Bright! Problem solved!
However, there is still a great deal of conflict and as a makeup artist and Dominatrix I feel it is my role to help in any way I can. I’ve even started a website with custom audio stories narrating your fantasy that you can play on your iPod, computer, or stereo. While some men have a closet full of dresses and enjoy this fetish, many others just fantasize about it while beating themselves up for thinking about it. I feel like by having their secret fantasy on an mp3 that they can listen to whenever they want, I’m giving them a safe and easy way to explore what turns them on. If they later decide to start wearing panties to work under their business suit and it makes a miserable job that little bit better, then my job is done.
As a side note, there is one thing I have to insist on. If you decide to wear panties, buy them tastefully! Never buy ones with small sayings and under no circumstances buy seven pairs with the days of the week on them. That is wrong!
