Do you want to date a stripper? This is pretty much every man’s fantasy at one point or another in his life and strip clubs are actually a pretty good place to meet attractive women if you know what you’re doing. Of course, most strippers will tell you that they don’t date clients, and this is generally the truth. It’s also true that strippers date guys they meet at the club, but only guys who know how to act and aren’t creepy perverts.
So how do you know if you’re coming off as a creep or a pervert? Although there are many categories where strippers make customers go wild or kinky it is a category of guys that a stripper will stay away from. If you are really acting mentally unbalanced and having delusions that a certain stripper is your girlfriend before you meet her outside of a strip club, you should really seek counseling or mental help.
A date with a stripper takes place outside the club and everything that happens between you and her inside the club is a business transaction and you are a customer. A date occurs when a stripper agrees to meet you outside the club for a drink or coffee or dinner and a movie. This should be what you are looking for if you want to date a stripper.
Asking her out outside the club doesn’t make you creepy or perverted. It shows that you are interested in getting out of it with her, so no harm, no foul. If, on the other hand, you ask her to be your girlfriend or become possessive of her while she’s at work, you need to control yourself. She’s working and if you ever have any hope of dating a stripper, you’ll have to accept the fact that she’s an exotic dancer and there will be guys seeing her naked. This is what she does for a living. Plain and simple.
The sad reality is that if you’ve done something to make yourself look like a creep or a stalker, all the strippers in the club will be a little wary of you, especially the girl you were hoping to date. The good news is that there is a solution.
Take your time and just talk to her. Talk to her about normal topics, like what she likes to do on her day off or what her hopes, dreams and ambitions are. Women like to talk about themselves and strippers are no exception to the rule. Take some time to really get to know her here and find out if she is the type of woman you really want to date. Show her that you are interested in dating her and not just a stripper. You may find that she is even more interesting and fun than you had imagined or that she is too weird to deal with. Either way, you’ll be making a decision based on reality rather than your desire to date a hot stripper you liked at the club.
