While it may be something joked about on sitcoms and rom-coms, fear of commitment is a very serious problem. It can destroy good relationships and it can prevent you from moving on with your life.
The fear of commitment manifests itself in a variety of ways. You may be terrified of marriage, afraid to say “I love you,” or even afraid of having a partner.
In many cases, people know that they are afraid of commitment. They may even be actively working to resolve it.
However, that is not enough.
Even if you consciously understand that you have a problem, your subconscious mind, where most of your thoughts and actions actually come from, may have other ideas. Even if you consciously make an effort to commit to your partner, or commit to the idea of just looking for your partner, you will have internal turmoil because you will receive interference from your subconscious.
So how can commitment fear hypnosis help you?
Hypnotherapy is not a “Band-Aid” like other treatment techniques. Rather than simply trying to alleviate symptoms, hypnotherapy attacks problems at the root, in the subconscious mind. Since hypnotherapy is the only type of therapy that allows you to access your subconscious, you can use it to find out where your fear of commitment is coming from, so you know how to deal with it.
In many cases, people develop a fear of commitment as a result of trauma early in life, such as parents who divorced or an emotionally distant mother. If something like this has happened to you, it is possible that your subconscious mind has taken that past experience and blown it out of proportion.
Now, her subconscious believes that her current relationship will end in divorce like her parents, or that all women are emotionally distant like her mother was, and therefore cannot be trusted with a commitment. No matter how many times he tries to tell himself that’s not the case, his subconscious mind doesn’t believe it and instead actively prevents him from committing.
Instead of working to come to terms with your past experiences, like you would in a psychologist’s office, commitment fear hypnosis will help you move on by reprogramming your subconscious mind to believe that those past experiences have nothing to do with your current relationship.
Commitment fear hypnosis can teach your subconscious to approach your current relationship with a fresh approach, instead of dragging all your emotional baggage around. By teaching your subconscious to separate the past from the present, you can end up with a happy and committed relationship in the near future!
