Getting your ex back quickly is a lot like taking down a cat trapped high up in a tree. The cat does not want to go down, you do not know how to reach it and neither of them is happy. So here are 4 surefire ways to take the cat down … umm, get your ex back fast.
Call for help, really. Even if relationships are personal matters, you obviously screwed up big time. You need the advice of an expert and the help of a professional, be it a family member, a close friend, or a therapist. Another factor in favor of asking for outside help is that it gives you an objective view, something that is sorely lacking in a broken relationship.
Learn to Climb – Here’s the thing: Your cat is up a tree and you have to get it down, so take a deep breath and start climbing. In other words, find out where your ex is, in terms of what they want from you. The argument and breakup was probably over something your ex wanted from you, which you were unable to do or provide. So do it.
Get another cat – It may sound crazy, but sometimes the best way to get something you really want is to stop wanting it. Get on with your life – start dating, find something to keep yourself busy. If your obsession with your ex goes away, you will see the world in a new light, and your ex will notice the change in you and will suddenly want you back, trust me. It works.
Buy new cat food – Appearance matters, especially in a broken relationship. You can bet your bottom dollar on the fact that your ex is your ex because he was less attracted to you than before. Take a few thoughts to think about what your ex liked first about you and if you’ve lost that “magic.” If so, get it back: new haircut, new clothes, cologne, whatever … The sheer heat of physical attraction will make all other problems in a relationship go away or seem trivial.
