Receiving flowers from a boyfriend (or any man) feels really good! Your heart melts, your face lights up, and you can’t help but feel so special inside. You wish your boyfriend would buy you flowers, but when he doesn’t, it breaks your heart. Here are 3 things to know about why your boyfriend doesn’t buy you flowers so you can stop doing the things that discourage him from buying flowers and do the things that make him want to keep buying you flowers.
1. Buying flowers for a girlfriend is not a natural thing for a man.
Most men don’t really appreciate how beautiful flowers are. How often do you see men automatically smile when they see flowers? To your boyfriend, his perspective on flowers might be that they are colored parts of plants, the purpose of which is to help a plant reproduce. So a man who does not love plants simply cannot understand how anyone can be so crazy about them. Her male friends are certainly not enthusiastic about flowers. So if your boyfriend doesn’t buy you flowers, don’t assume he’s being an idiot or that he’s not romantic. Buying flowers for a girl is really not a natural thing for grooms. You will need to let him know how much you like receiving flowers from him.
2. Your boyfriend doesn’t understand how happy it will make you to receive flowers from him.
When you understand men better, you will discover that they really enjoy making women happy. Unfortunately, men often have no idea how to do this. Their actions are often a function of trial and error, copying what they see on television, following the advice of their friends. So if your boyfriend doesn’t give you flowers, forgive him for not being a woman. Help him by saying, “I would be very happy to receive some flowers from you.” If you are picky about the type of flowers you like, tell them specifically what your favorite flowers are. Otherwise, you may end up receiving flowers that disappoint you. Keep in mind that once your boyfriend feels like he hasn’t been able to make you happy the first time he buys you flowers, he is unlikely to be motivated to buy you other types of flowers again.
3. How you ask your boyfriend to buy you flowers is important.
Many women think they are asking their boyfriends to buy them flowers when what they are really doing is hinting. An example is asking the question, “Why don’t you buy me flowers?” A friend will probably say “Oh, I didn’t think of that. Do you want me to buy you flowers?” Or just do it automatically. But a man doesn’t think that way. He’ll probably think you just want to know WHY he doesn’t buy you flowers, it’s not that you’re happy to receive flowers from him. Men really aren’t good at deciphering women’s clues. Another bad way to ask your boyfriend to buy you flowers is to say, “If you loved me, you would buy me flowers.” This sounds like a boy complaining. Your boyfriend will think that you think his love is not good enough. And when a man thinks he can’t make you happy, he gives him a good reason to leave a relationship.
These are just 3 things you need to understand about why a boyfriend doesn’t give you flowers. To have the relationship you’ve always dreamed of, I invite you to continue learning more about men.
