Well, today I would like to focus your attention on three popular sexual positions and, in particular, the advantages and disadvantages of each. We will consider the missionary position, the “standing man-woman-lying” position, and the cowgirl position (“woman on top”).
1 / MISSIONARY POSITION
This is the traditional position for sex where, as I’m sure you know, the man lies on top of a woman prone to have sex.
Pros:
This is the easiest sexual position to adopt, requires little energy to get started, and is ideal for sudden, spontaneous, and unplanned intercourse. Usually it is easy for the man to simply roll over on the woman and her genitals are facing each other. This position lends itself to great intimacy because the two lovers can hug and look into each other’s eyes (if they are approximately the same height). Intercourse feels very exciting for the man, and the woman receives a significant push and a “full body” experience. It is usually quite quiet and can be done in secret if there is a danger of being discovered by other people in the house.
Cons –
This position is reputed to be the “boring type of sex for married people” as it tends to lend itself to passionate “quickies” and can be repeated every time a couple has sex. It is often used to avoid being discovered by curious children and others who may interrupt the session. High levels of stimulation often cause the man to ejaculate rapidly in less than 2-3 minutes, creating a bad habit for his body and a boring experience for the woman, whose body has only just begun to respond to sex before it is over. It is a challenge for a man to create an orgasm for his woman unless he spends a LOT of time in foreplay beforehand and even then, prolonging the time of intercourse is quite difficult.
2 / Man standing, woman lying down
This is the position where the woman lies with her hips aligned with the edge of the bed, while the man stands on the edge of the bed to have sex.
Pros:
The main advantage of this position from a man’s point of view is the fact that it dramatically lengthens the amount of time he can have sex with a woman; anything up to 10-20 minutes or more can be accomplished. Having sex standing up makes it much more difficult for your body to be stimulated to orgasm, so you have to push for longer to achieve it. He can also see the woman’s body much better and can use his hands to touch her breasts and upper body, allowing the woman to receive stimulation in two different ways at the same time. The woman usually keeps her legs wide open by placing her hands behind her knees. You can also watch his penis go in and out of her, which turns him on a lot. It can also push much deeper so that it can reach the woman’s A point, which can cause a woman to have “cervical” orgasms.
Cons –
Having sex comfortably standing requires that the bed be at the same height as the man’s hips. Usually it is not, it is lower. This means that the man has to bend his knees in order to have sex with the woman. This is tiring on the man’s legs because he has to push for a long time, in addition there is the problem of bent knees, which means that his legs are not flush with the edge of the bed. This can be solved by lifting the woman’s hips out of the bed so that her lower back is on the edge of the bed, but this requires the woman to change the position of her legs by bending them against her chest to counteract it. center of gravity, so your whole body doesn’t slide out of bed, in which case you’ll end up sitting on the floor with your legs wide open. Bending your legs against your chest means that the man can no longer access your breasts or upper body, so the stimulation pathway is closed. Inexperienced women may not realize that they need to keep their legs spread with their hands behind their knees, so they will dangle their legs from the ends of the bed beyond the man’s body, which can be uncomfortable . There is an increased risk of injury to the vaginal tissues of the woman from a strong push, since the man can go deeper.
3 / Cowgirl position
This is the position in which the woman gets on top of a man upside down and straddles his hips to have sex.
Pros:
This position is a winner in many ways – the woman feels amazing and is extremely exciting for the man. The main benefit is for the woman: you can control everything that is happening and do exactly what you need to do to achieve an orgasm without relying on the experience and expertise of the man. She can do exactly what feels good to HER, whether or not he knows how to do it. You can go deep or shallow, fast or slow, in and out, up and down, you can rock back and forth, rub your pelvis against your pubic bone to stimulate the clitoris, lean back, lean forward, lean toward the left and right, sit facing the man, do “reverse cowgirl”, sit to the left of his body, sit to the right, go round and round like he’s sitting in a swivel chair and all sorts of things. For the man, he can see his wife having the best time of her life doing whatever she wants to get the most pleasure she can from her body, which is a great turn-on for him and secretly giving his wife a total pleasure. What every man wants is mind-blowing time, and this is the lazy way to get it done without him having to learn any “skills.” You will learn that you will, however, as watching her is very educational and you will find out exactly what turns her on without having to “try everything and watch her closely to see what happens,” which is the usual approach for us guys. She can teach her man a lot in a short time and he can remember it all for the next time he’s in control. Meanwhile, he can lie back and enjoy the ride as much as she because his penis gets so much stimulation. You can also use your hands to stimulate your breasts and upper body, run your fingers through your hair, tilt your head back, and many other things. Plus, there is the reversal of domination: putting the woman in control of sex is liberating for her and tremendously exciting for him as he discovers just how wild his wife really is.
Cons –
This position is HIGH ENERGY for both partners. That could be an advantage too, but for the woman, her legs need to be really strong to cope with all the up and down movement, which needs to continue more or less nonstop for at least 20 minutes for her to achieve orgasm. . It is a major cardiovascular exercise and a feat of physical endurance. There will be sweat and slippery bodies and a lot of heavy breathing and noise. It is quite stimulating for the man and there is a risk of premature ejaculation, ending everything quite quickly before you have had a chance to learn something or see things really heat up, although women naturally tend to grind more than slide up and down, which can delay your orgasm quite well. Your penis needs to be HARD for this – it needs a strong erection and it needs to last a long time. There is also the risk of damaging the penis if the girl is really energetic in dropping all the weight of her upper body on it and loses her vagina (ouch!) In this case, there may be a flexing of the penis, which It is quite a serious injury (often requires hospitalization!) Also, getting the penis into the vagina at first can be a bit difficult as the man’s penis points up and is flat against your body, so you have to move your penis to a position of 90 degrees to your body (the usual way) or else you have to lean forward a little for him to put it inside. There is also a risk that the noise will be detected by other people around, so choose a quiet time for this, when there are not many people around!
So these are the advantages and disadvantages of these three sexual positions. If you are considering spicing up your sex life with some new positions, I hope this information will help you choose the one you want, so that both of you can achieve an exciting and amazing sex life together!
