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Love shouldn’t be a one-day affair

Love is the most beautiful of all human emotions. Because it brings more comfort and happiness to all parties involved. Life without love has no charm and resembles a lonely tree in a desert. Similarly, a person without love is just a cage of skin-lined bones. Imagine the world without love. Only chaos will surround us.

Love is the only game in the world where everyone wins. If you keep judging people, you won’t have time to love them. Always look at the good and bad aspects of anything to decide its character. The rose is liked by everyone for its fascinating beauty, although it has thorns on the stem. All the great things in life have developed by making only mistakes. In the midst of any difficulty, there is only opportunity. Errors can be reduced if we love what we do.

Love takes different forms depending on the relationships and the status of the individuals. Relationships exist as Parents-Children, Sister-Brother, Husband-Wife, Friends, Colleagues, Teacher-Pupil, etc. Status refers to the stage in which an individual is placed as Childhood, Adolescence, and Adult. However, love in the modern era is used to represent the affairs that develop before a person’s marriage.

Generally, people tend to show a lot of enthusiasm before marriage for a number of reasons, the main one being sexual attraction. The intensity of that love fades after marriage. That is why many people in this category end up in divorce or other decisions. People who love their partner after marriage generally keep it. With some relationships that turn sour over time due to loss of trust and misunderstandings due to internal or external factors. People in the latter category have respect for the family institution and social values. So, keep loving your partner always. ‘Give and take’ is the ideal way for love to nurture life.

Whatever the stories behind Valentine’s Day, it is known as Valentine’s Day. Don’t think it’s just for young people or singles. Whether they’re married or living in a relationship, everyone tries to celebrate like it’s another day, they don’t indulge in Cupid’s behavior (it’s not stupid!). In one incident, the previously divorced couple got engaged via Facebook without knowing each other (as the profile photo was not used). They decided to meet on Valentine’s Day in a hotel and reveal their love. Once they met, they couldn’t digest their past and parted ways again.

True love has no limitations such as selfishness, region, creed, and caste. It has no borders and, in fact, it integrates with nature. Pure love is shared with others. Pure love helps others in times of pain and sadness. Pure love begets lasting peace and happiness. This is what Jesus, Buddha, and Mahatma Gandhi exhibited in their lives. According to Thirukkural, the classic Tamil verses, love and honesty are the two virtues that give meaning to life.

Love is not a one-day affair, but a way to celebrate a lifetime.

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