Learning to talk dirty to a guy is a powerful tool to turn any guy’s head and weaken his knees. For those women who have mastered the art of dirty talk, I don’t need to tell you about the true power of words and how you can make it melt in seconds.
The first thing to know is that you don’t have to feel self-conscious or nervous when starting out. Believe me, your man is going to love it no matter how bad he may be to start. The key, whether you’re a beginner or someone who’s thrown in a few sizzling lines, is that you need to talk dirty with absolute confidence.
Make no mistake, confidence is truly a deadly weapon and it can make your guy beg you for more.
There are a couple of things to consider when getting started. First, you shouldn’t leave dirty talk confined to the bedroom or face-to-face contact. One of the easiest ways to get started for beginners is to send naughty text messages.
The key to mind blowing dirty talk is understanding when to be assertive and when to be more submissive. These two methods will allow you to play the mischievous girl who won’t take no for an answer or a much more submissive role that will leave her feeling in power and control.
Stroking your guy’s ego is a surefire way to make him feel like a stud.
Getting your mind racing and your imagination soaring is what you should aspire to.
You can send naughty text messages to him while he is at work or with his friends, telling him all the things you want to do to him or what you want him to do with you. Imagination is the key to weakening your knees and drooling like a puppy.
Whether you go for the submissive approach or the much more assertive approach, you need to be confident in yourself and what you are saying. Nothing will turn it off more than hearing you say things just for the sake of saying them. If you are NOT comfortable with what you want to say, don’t say it.
You don’t need to go from 0 to 100 in two shots like you may have seen in adult movies. Being subtle and unobtrusive can excite you below the equator and get your mind racing. A good example of this is whispering something in his ear when you’re out in public or having dinner. You can also mimic something across the room to get her heart racing.
If you don’t want to text or email, it should be as descriptive as possible to let your imagination run wild. The fact is that both men and women can become mentally aroused as much as the physical attraction between the sheets.
If you are face to face, you can whisper something in his ear or demand it (assertive approach) and look him directly in the eye and allow him to speak ALL the time. Giving her “that look” while talking naughty will make her heart race!
If you’re in the bedroom, just do it, don’t get too obsessed with what you’re going to say, if you do, it can look and sound very unnatural and really mess up the “beat.”
Understanding what your guy likes to have done to you or what he loves to do to you is really the key. If you’re not sure, take it easy and tone it down and up the ante when you feel like you’re pushing your buttons. It is important to know how to change gears in different situations and to know when to tone it up and do it and mix it up.
This will come in time, there is no need to worry about it or overthink it. Play by ear! The way your guy responds will talk a lot and let you know if you are hitting the target.
Don’t stress about it! Chances are, nothing you say turns your guy off! Guys love women who can talk dirty even if they are not experts! It doesn’t take long to get it right and make your man beg you for more dirty talk in and out of the bedroom!